Lovebirds as Pets: One Bird or a Pair?

Lovebirds are small, feisty parrots that can live up to about 20 years. The name oversells their gentleness: they can bite hard and get territorial. The big decision is one hand-tamed bird that bonds with you, or a pair that bonds mainly with each other. Either works if you plan for it.

Small Bird, Real Bite

Lovebirds are named for how closely pairs bond with each other, not for how they treat people. They are curious, busy and confident, and a strong little beak can nip hard, especially around their cage or when hormonal.

Patient, reward-based handling from a young age makes a big difference. Read the warning signs (fluffed feathers, a lunge, a low chatter) and give space rather than pushing on.

One or a Pair?

The RSPCA lists lovebirds among the colony species that do well in social groups, and a pair keeps each other company when you're out. The trade-off is that a bonded pair often prefers each other to you and may be harder to hand-tame.

A single hand-tamed lovebird can bond closely with its person, but only if that person gives real time and attention every day. If your days are long and unpredictable, a pair is kinder. Introduce new birds gradually, cage beside cage first, because not every pairing works.

Setting Up for One or Two

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A wide cage with 0.5-inch (1.3 cm) bar spacing gives a pair room to move and squabble without cornering each other. Lovebirds love to shred, so keep a supply of paper and soft-wood toys. Pellets form the base of the diet, and two sets of food and water dishes stop one bird guarding them.

Territory and Nesting

Many lovebirds guard their cage and become moody in breeding season; the Merck Veterinary Manual notes this too. Females may shred paper and tuck strips into their feathers to build nests.

Unless you plan to breed, skip a nest box: it tends to encourage hormonal behavior, territorial aggression and egg-laying. Rearranging toys now and then and keeping a regular day length help. A female that keeps laying eggs needs a vet check.

The First Month

  • Find a vet who sees birds and book an early check-up.
  • Let new birds settle for a few days before hand-taming.
  • Feed pellets, washed vegetables and a little seed; never avocado.
  • Give daily flying time in a bird-safe room. Lovebirds are fast, curious and good at finding gaps.
  • Keep lovebirds apart from other small birds: they can be aggressive to other species.

Frequently Asked Questions

What lovebird buyers ask first.

Are lovebirds as sweet as their name suggests?

Not always. They are affectionate with their chosen partner, bird or human, but can be bold, territorial and nippy.

Should I get one lovebird or two?

Two if you are out a lot; one only if you can give a lot of daily attention. A pair usually bonds more with each other than with you.

Will a pair still be friendly with people?

Some pairs stay tame with regular, gentle handling, but most turn toward each other. Accept that before you buy.

Do lovebirds need a nest box?

Not unless you plan to breed. A nest box tends to trigger hormonal behavior and egg-laying.

How loud are lovebirds?

They chirp and chatter a lot but usually aren't loud, as the Merck Veterinary Manual notes. Pairs can be chattier.

How long do lovebirds live?

Up to about 20 years with good care. That is a long commitment for a small bird.

Find an avian vet before your lovebirds arrive. A female that lays repeatedly, or any bird that sits fluffed up and quiet, needs a vet check.